Friday, March 20, 2009

Cheesiest Love Quotes Ever!~

Isipin mo na lang, parehas tayong umiyak, parehas tayong nasaktan, at parehas tayong nahirapan. pero bakit ganon? sa huli, sino lang yung natira? ako lang di ba?

Kung mahal mo raw, ipaglaban mo. totoo ba yon? paano kung hindi ka niya mahal? anong ipaglalaban mo? isang pag-ibig na ikaw lang ang nakakadama? mahirap yata yon ah!!! kaya mo ba? pero pag mahal mo talaga, kakayanin mo di ba?

Sana pag nakita mo na yung taong mahal mo, huwag kang magpakatanga, wag kang magpakamartir, wag kang magpakagago...ayokong makitang nahihirapan ka...tignan mo nangyari sa akin nung minahal kita....

Paano mo malalaman kung mahal ka niya? Simple lang....tumalon ka tapos sigaw mong mahal mo siya, pero kung di ka niya sasaluhin, wag kang mag-alala, ano ba'ng silbi ko? di ba tagasalo pag wala siya?

Sana akin ka para di ka iiyak. sana akin ka para di ka na masasaktan. sana akin ka para di ka na aasa pa. ngunit ang talagang nais ko'y Sana ako siya na minahal mo ng sobra sobra.

Minsan ang layo ng tingin mo. Sino ba'ng hinahanap mo? yun tao bang magmamahal sayo? yan ang hirap sayo eh! ang layo lagi ng tingin mo, ang tagal ko na dito...di ba pwedeng sa kin ka naman tumingin?

Iniwan kita di dahil ayoko na sayo. tinalikuran kita di dahil galit ako sayo, lumayo ako di dahil ayaw na kitang makita, umalis lang ako kasi ayaw ko nang umiyak habang nakikita kang masaya...sa piling niya.

Mahirap umasa sa wala. Mahirap magmahal sa taong may ibang mahal. Mahirap ipagtanggol ang taong walang paki sa nararamdaman mo...at higit sa lahat, mahirap masaktan ng wala kang karapatan.

Sabi mo di ka nanghihinayang na nawala siya sa'yo...o nagsisisi na iniwan ka niya, sa totoo lang, hindi ako naniniwala, dahil nakatulog ka'ng lumuluha sa tabi ko, habang pabulong kong sinasabi, "ako kaya iiyakan mo?"

Kahit gaano kasakit? ok lang mahal kita eh. mas minahal kita nung sinaktan mo ko. ang labo ko rin no? martir ako eh...tanga pa. pero alam mo, marunong din akong masaktan.

Masakit maging kaibigan ng taong mahal mo. hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar di ka dapat umasa o di kaya mainis sa kanya....bakit... anong karapatan mo? KAIBIGAN ka lang di ba?

Inisip ko andaya mo, kasi nangako ka di mo ako iiwan, pero minsan iniisip ko kung ano mas madaya… Yung iwan mo ako? O yung pinilit kitang mangako?

Kahit nasasaktan ang isang tao pinipilit pa rin nya magmahal... BAKIT??? dahil ang puso puwede mong sugatan pero di mo kayang turuan, patuloy itong titibok at patuloy na magmamahal...

Sabi nila totoo daw na nagkakatotoo ang wish sa falling star. siguro, di ko na-try...pero kagabi may nakita akong isa, di ko pinansin, kasi alam ko nandyan ka na...ano pa'ng hahanapin ko?...wala na di ba?(~here's my favorite quote!)

I had a dream, you left me daw, so i cried kse you mean so much to me and i never want to lose you. i felt weird when i woke up because naalala ko, i never had you nga pala...

If someone asks you, “anong pangalan nya?” don’t answer, just say “di ko alam” even if you do. Coz you may become their bridge and someday you’ll say “sana di ko na lang sya pinakilala, ako dapat mahal nya”.

Magulo talaga ang mundo pag gusto mo; ayaw sayo; pag gusto ka; ayaw mo; pero ang masakit; gusto mo; gusto ka; pero.... di pwedeng maging kayo...=c

Gusto mo ba malaman kung ano ka sa kanya? sorry ha, di ko alam e! pero alam ko kung sno ka sakin, ikaw yung tipong "WaLA LANG" parang pag na "WaLA" ka sa buhay ko, ikakamatay ko "LANG"

Sabi nila..pag di ka makatulog may nagiisip sayo,may nagwowori, at sigurado, yung taong yun miss ka nya,ksya pag di ka makatulog,sori ha!! di ko mapigilan e, namiss kita

I often wonder why things didn't work for the both of us.. patience?... meron.. time?, meron din...trust of course!.. love? sobra sobra!! pero teka. was it ever the both us o ako lang?!

Kumatok ka sa puso ko, pinatuloy kita. pero kinuha mo ang susi nito at umalis ka na lang bigla. tanong ko lang, "Babalik ka pa ba?", di na kasi mabuksan ng iba...='c

Everyone needs someone to be with, but often, they try to choose the best...I may not be the best among them, but I promise not to leave you...aalis lang ako pag sinabi mong "_____, di na kita kailangan..."

If i were to convert my heart into a room full of my loved one, it will be very crowded. but don't worry, there's still a place for you to stay at the center...i'll shout..."tabi kayo! honey ko dyan!"

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Why Do We Fall in Love?


"It is better to have loft and lost than to never have loft at all." — Groucho Marx

Falling in love is a magical experience that happens between two people. So why do people fall in love?

Q: What motivates people to seek out love?
A: Our primary motivation as human beings is to expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness. One of the ways we accomplish this is through our relationships with other people. We have learned in our research that it is important to feel that you have the ability to be an effective person, especially in our relationships.

Q: How does this theory of self-expansion explain the process of falling in love?
A: Usually, we fall in love with a person that we find attractive and appropriate for us, but also someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us. This creates a situation where a great opportunity is open to us for self-expansion. The fact that they are attracted to us offers a significant opportunity — when we perceive this, we feel a surge of exhilaration!

Q: Does it always work this way?
A: No, an interesting exception to this occurs if we feel badly about ourselves. The process gets thrown off if we can't believe that another persons finds us attractive — like the Groucho Marx joke where we don't want to belong to a club that would have us for a member. We tend to miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we don't feel good about ourselves.

Q: What conditions are best for meeting someone and falling in love?
A: When you meet someone under conditions that are highly arousing — a political demonstration, turbulence on a plane, a stimulating performance — a time when the body is stirred up and excited, we tend to experience attraction at a heightened level. This effect is well documented but the explanations for it are very controversial. I tend to believe that we come to associate the arousal of the situation with this person and our own self-expansion.

Q: When do we fall in love?
A: Contrary to what most people think, the statistics show that most people fall in love with someone that they have known for a while. People only report falling in love quickly about 1/3 to 40 percent of the time. Of course, this varies from culture to culture. Falling in love happens differently between cultures but it does occur in most cultures.

Q: How does our appearance factor into the equation of falling in love?
A: This is interesting; we have found that if you are very unattractive, it can hurt you a lot in forming romantic relationships. However, being attractive doesn't help that much.

Q: How do you explain that?
A: We have found that two important characteristics, kindness and intelligence, are extremely important in the process of falling in love. And attractiveness is not connected to these things. These two attributes are things that people learn about someone from knowing them over time. Intelligence is important in all aspects of life, especially in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship.

Q:Why do we need to fall in love if we just end up crying?
A:(answer ain't yet known)